About Jay

 

Online dating is challenging for a guy, as he needs to stand out based on pictures and a short profile. 95% of women go for  5%  of the guys based on looks.

 

I crafted this "dating resume" concept after reading an article about creating a résumé for potential relationships. Often, initial dates revolve around typical small talk topics, leading to repetitive conversations. While I understand that women appreciate surprise during first dates, reading this document about me can save both parties valuable time by revealing aspects that may be disliked or appreciated, promoting more meaningful connections from the start.

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About Me:

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  • I live in downtown Chicago, next to the Navy Pier.
  • Empty nester. Son 20, in college, doing pre-med
  • I am into yoga, not a gym nut, but I am 6'1" tall and under 23 BMI
  • Raised in the US and Canada, originally from Sri Lanka with Dutch roots.
  • Funny, cultured, smart. I love making others laugh.
  • Minimalistic lifestyle but appreciates quality, loves wine, and enjoys fine cuisine.
  • Financially independent and is a top 5% income earner.
  • No baggage from past relationships. No child support or alimony
  • An experienced global explorer and lifelong learner of other cultures
  • Proudly Metrosexual - Nails, Facials, Clothing
  • Friends from diverse backgrounds and walks of life. From CEOs to doormen.
  • I'm not here for quick hookups or one-night stands or trying to be a sugar daddy. 
  • I do not believe in instant attraction; I seek a deep connection built over time.
  • Even my ex would endorse that I’m a kind and generous guy who respects everyone.

 

I was watching this video on FB (Link), and based on this, I can say I am

 

  • Tall

  • Dark

  • Handsome (Well, that you have to decide)

  • Good hairline

  • Loving

  • Caring

  • Supporting

  • Financial Stable

  • Family man

 

The woman for me:

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  • 45+ and grown-up kids
  • Honest and Caring. 
  • You are looking for a long-term relationship.
  • If you believe in instant attraction, I am the wrong guy. 
  • Relationships take time and effort. You are willing to put in the effort.
  • Have a good group of friends and family. I love to get to know your friends and family.
  • Passionate about culinary experiences, exploring new places, and a healthy lifestyle.
  • Someone with a stable career, emphasizing financial compatibility without seeking a sugar daddy.
  • Valuing diverse cultures and having friends from different backgrounds.
  • Enthusiastic about off-the-beaten-path travel destinations, How about a month-long road trip through France or living on a boat one day

  • Finally, sex is not just for making babies. I am not trying to get into your pants on day one, but if you do not enjoy sex, the relationship is not going to last.

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Dating by the numbers.

 

My daily work heavily relies on data analysis, and I am a big fan of statistics. According to data from the US Census, the likelihood of women encountering an individual on a dating site who is single, not obese, stands at 6'1" tall, belongs to the top 5% income bracket, and falls within the 45 to 55 age group is remarkably low, at just 0.001%. This equates to one individual in every 10,000 men on a dating site.

 

I'm not boasting; I'm simply emphasizing the reliance on accurate statistics rather than arbitrary figures.

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Dating Reality 

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I have two female friends trying online dating, and based on their experience, I can confidently say I am not the average guy here. For the record, I am not married, I do not need a loan, I have a well-paying job, not seeking a green card, I do not have any weird sexual fantasies, not a serial dater who can't make up his mind, not into one-night stands, no crazy ex chasing me, no criminal record, no mental issues, not sending you pictures of my private parts or asking for pictures of your private parts and most importantly I can make you laugh.

 

 

 

Let's catch up for a quick coffee, drink, Zoom, or Facetime. Who knows, and we can become best friends or fall in love. Hopefully both :-) 

 

Also, Feel free to search for "Jay Janarthanan" on Google. My life is public, and I have nothing to hide.